2021: A Mini Year in Review of Making Paradoxical Moves

Welcome to a mini year in review with the Head Witch in Charge, Michelle Pellizzon-Lipsitz. Michelle is taking a quick break on her honeymoon(!) to muse on her biggest wins, losses, and failures-turned-paradoxical-moves of the year.

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Failure is almost more valuable than success, especially if you leverage it correctly. You can learn so much and you can collapse timelines when you apply and really look at your failures honestly...
— Michelle Pellizzon
Flexibility without structure is chaos.
— Michelle Pellizzon
I’ve learned now that if you really believe in something, it’s your responsibility to create the backward bridge to where people are and meet people where they’re at to help them cross the threshold to your new idea, your new perspective, your new way of thinking and seeing things.
— Michelle Pellizzon
If you are early, just pace yourself and remember you’re the bridge.
— Michelle Pellizzon
Patience and enthusiasm were two things that I really needed. I learned over and over again that I need to wait. I can’t get everything done as quickly as I want to get it done. I can’t zoom through life. I can’t zoom through my experiences and just wait and hope that they’ll be over soon. I need to sit in it. Sometimes it’s terrible to sit in it, but that’s what it requires.
— Michelle Pellizzon
Life is too important to be taken seriously.
— Michelle Pellizzon
Sometimes being radically generous means taking the time to teach someone why what they did was not a cool thing and creating a boundary and clarifying that boundary for them.
— Michelle Pellizzon
Picking my outfits or my costumes, picking my perfume, picking each character that I wanted to play every quarter has helped me more than anything do the things that I want to do and be the person I want to be.
— Michelle Pellizzon

Covered in this episode:

  • Welcome to the last episode of The Twelfth House for the year 2021! We will come back full stream in January 2022.

  • When can failure be considered more valuable than success?

  • Your perception of failure defines its value

  • Timeline collapsing and taking a quantum leap

  • Chaos due to lack of structure

  • The importance of structures, delegation, and having a sense of responsibility and accountability

  • Is it okay to be a trend-setter? 

  • How can you build that backward bridge for people?

  • Making the paradoxical moves

  • Have big dreams but playing it small?

  • Learning from failures

  • Doing self-assessment with the way you react or respond towards life, relationships, work, and online space

  • Being enthusiastic while learning the art of stillness through having fun

  • Ways to set and preserve good boundaries

  • Doing the things that you want to do and being the person you want to be

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